All the journeys I have ever embarked on have traumatised me in one way or another. They have had me questioning what ‘being human’ means. What do you think being human is? Are you human? Is humanity a good thing?
Last week I was traveling to the countryside. It is one journey I always look forward to and dread at the same time. I love that traversing the five counties on my way is an excursion of itself. However, I dread sitting with strangers and the fact that public service vehicles have no room for long legs. My eyes will love what I see on the way, but my legs will certainly not love how they feel when I touch down in my village. This journey, however, was more filled with dread than it was with pleasure.
It was raining on our way. And rain always lulls everyone to sleep. Except, we couldn’t sleep on this particular journey. A beautiful daughter of a wonderful God was by the window seat and she had her window half open. The wind was blowing rainwater our way as if it was on contract. At some point, I felt like I was a Merc in a car wash being cleaned, except no one was scrubbing my back.
“Please close the window.” The lady she shared the window with implored.
“I can’t breathe with the window closed.” She answered back while removing her glasses and opening the window further.
The lady who had asked for the window to be shut was shivering despite being in a jacket. I could hear her teeth grinding against each other. I had to confirm from my shuttle ticket whether this was a PSV or a privately-owned vehicle we had just been given a ‘lift’ in.
“Sis, next time try sitting at the front seats with the driver.” The shivering lady said as she curled herself into a ball to harness as little warmth as she could from the covered parts of her body.
“As for you, next time also try to sit at the middle.” The lady with the open window retorted slapping some gum against her teeth and staring somewhat into space. As if she couldn’t imagine how we couldn’t understand she would ‘die’ if the window was closed.
I turned back at her and imagined her telling the police during ‘mask-up times’ that she can’t breathe with the mask on and leaving them to live a ‘breath-ful’ life with coronavirus hanging around the air like the homie you don’t like.
I tried wracking humanity up from the depths of her soul and found it all over her. I realised that that is exactly how we are as ‘humans’. She was the best version of us at that point in time and I shouldn’t have found any fault in how she exposed us to cold.
But do I really want to be human? I don’t think so. My encounter with her had me thinking a lot about how loved and taken care of I will be if I undressed all these fast fashion clothes that make me look down upon people or have them laugh at my lack of sense, and moved into an animal family. I will do quite fine as a member of the elephant family because they will love and celebrate me every day of my life. In fact, I will get a befitting send-off when I die and not those two-day road trips we take to people’s funerals as humans.
I wouldn’t mind having animal leaders because we humans have failed. We are out here hating each other and feeling better about ourselves, destroying every beautiful thing that comes our ways and crying about the cruelty of life. In due honesty, good deeds should be termed as ‘animal’ and not ‘human’ anymore. I wouldn’t mind telling a stranger who has lent me a bottle of water, “thank you! That’s so animal and kind of you.”
Because to be animal is to care for family and community, be selfless, responsible, and compassionate, I choose Animal.